Monthly Archives: February 2010

Our First House Show

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Our dimly lit house will smell of winter wine, good, fresh cheeses and the hopeful cheer of friends who are determined to enjoy the Inside Season (Ohio Winter, of course) this Saturday evening. We have invited the Ohio native band, Ellery, to perform a cozy, candlelit living room show. Making music in midwestern living rooms has been a new adventure for this duo and they are having a blast squeezing the best out of winter.

We thought about an Olympic Party with Kitchen Jumping and the Seiffert Super G…but the medical waiver forms looked taxing. Instead, let us make music.

Let us laugh in the face of the Inside Season. (though Life is so much sweeter after Deadness…so, yes, Inside Season, you do have a good, redemptive purpose)

Let us eat, drink and be merry.

Let us practice art and warm hugs and stillness that soaks up a good melody.

Won’t you join us? If you haven’t been invited – let me know. $10 suggested donation. 7:30 doors open. Music at 8:30. The Seiffert Living Room. Limited space for a cozy night. February 27th.

(Above is a little song sampler that my husband and I put together…he designed…I sewed…and we are passing it out to our friends who would love a pre-listen)

Winter Whining

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Robby has been into whining lately. I understand. It’s February. Who isn’t whining?

But I’ve got a new house rule: No whining in the room I am in.

Fair enough. I probably should give others the same courtesy I’d like to have. Do unto others.

So Robby got lost in his whining a few days ago and I decided to give him some choices (control is what they want, so creating something for my two-year old to control and/or choose is always a fun on-the-spot challenge). “Robby, you may whine. But no whining in the kitchen. If you want to whine, you’ll have to go on the couch in the Living Room. Or be all done with whining. You choose.”

He stopped. Looked at me. Whimpered a little. (whimpering is a close relative to whining) And then asked: “What couch can I whine on, Momma?”

“Any couch you’d like out there, buddy.”

He chose the brown, vintage one we reupholstered our first year of marriage. Comfy, cozy, well-placed for winter whining.

Where do you like to whine? (under the covers at 7:55am, personally)

Redemption later that day: Robby wanted to take me to the “Cucumber Shop.”  Never been to one, so of course we had to go. We marched up to the playroom and he sat me down at the table. After we played Cucumber Shop he looked at me and said:

“Will you take me on a date, Momma?”

I melted right there in front of him….like a mushy, drippy snowman.

[Dear God, Thank you for my wiggly, whiny, wonderful Gift. Amen. (Psalm 127)]

Carrying Me

Sometimes I feel like different things carry me around during my day. Especially when I am emotionally undercharged. As if this particular thing has the strength to pick me up, sling me on it’s hip, and carry me around. Like I’m the toddler. Good, hope-filled and noble things do this. God-sent things, I’m sure.

Sometimes it’s a word someone said to me that I just skate around on as I do the dishes, carry my son, fold my laundry.

Other times, it’s a song. A song that I keep singing until I believe it’s true. A song that was sent to me in the mail from Santa Fe from a dear friend, at just the right time.

And these past few days it’s been a book. This book has been my companion in some strange situations. I have had the rare chance of flying to Omaha this past weekend to be a keynote speaker at the Great Plains Regional Greek Conference. Sounds sorta fancy. Not really. But a wonderfully fun and sweet little time in the lives of these college students.

As I found myself traveling alone (repeatedly looking around for my son or any needs he should be having or hugs to be given or books to be read) I stopped. Took a breath. Had a self-talk moment. Self, enjoy these dumb airport delays that are setting your arrival time back. Enjoy the alone time. Enjoy your book club book you haven’t been able to pick up in 2 weeks. You only have You to take care of.

So, I let Aibeleen carry me. I let Minny cook for me. I let Skeeter write for me. As I read deeper into the new novel “The Help,” these characters have picked me up and taken me with them. I learned with them. I laughed with them. I cried with them. I felt fussed over and coddled and loved by them.

I cannot help but allow music, words, art carry me. I have to humbly let them, too. Because the beauty of Word invites, inspires, repairs.

The beauty of Song is strong when I am weak.

The beauty of pages of struggling lives gives perspective and newness.

What has carried you around lately?

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Robby letting a song carry him….