A Good Plan for You

First Day of Pre-School! I never understood why moms cry at graduations, weddings, first days of school.... I get it. I'm in the club. Motherhood is nutso. My child is my heart outside of me, walking around. Open to the world. And he's growing up - becoming more and more of his own self. Independence. Eek! (Isn't he awesome! He practically ran into school, gave me a quick kiss and off he went to play at a place he had NEVER been to! But I LOVE his Co-op Preschool. Mrs. K came to our house for a "house visit" last week and read him a book and got to know him. She does this with all of her new students!)

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We have also, in the past few days, had some battles. Robby doesn't want to do something I ask of him immediately; he dawdles, he keeps playing, he tells me "just a minute" or he even runs in the opposite direction when I ask him to stop in his tracks. I'm sure I am the ONLY mom on this one. (wink)

Living on Main Street does not afford us a second chance when it comes to listening and obeying immediately. Cars don't wait.

So I have, in turn, given him some quick and immediate consequences and discipline. And, he is in the curious and fantastic stage of asking "Why, Momma?" when I ask him to start to clean up his toys, or come to dinner, or to do anything, really.

Typically we hear: Because I said so, that's why.

My new response: Because I have a good plan for you, Robby.

This has been my version of: "Because I said so, dude." I want him to listen and obey because I asked him to - but you can read his unsatisfied look. So I want him to know that what I am asking him to do is for his good, for our family's good, for a greater good of his maturity and growth. I have a good plan for him.

It is how I think God, in a way, does "parenting".... and it helps Robby know continuously that I am on his side.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11 (God told this to the Israelites, His people. I also cling to this heart of God)